This is part of something that has been kicking around in my head lately – kind of a “use the whole buffalo” deal, where I have all this stuff at home that I don’t use, and a bunch of other stuff that I feel like I “need,” and I am trying to find ways for those two things to meet in the middle. I have this overwhelming urge to really use everything I have before I get anything new. Of course, this isn’t entirely possible, but I can come close to it. So I am finding ways to use the things I don’t need and turn them into the things I do need, while maintaining the things I already have and use. There are a lot of ways this has been manifesting in my life lately, but I’ll start with just one:
Don’t Replace – Repair!
There have been plenty of occasions on which I have justified buying something because I need a new one. This is especially true for clothes, shoes, accessories, etc. “It’s worn out, I need a new one,” “It has a hole in it, I need a new one,” etc. Sometimes, you really do need a new one, but a lot of the time you could make do with repairing the old one instead. It’s hard sometimes (or it has been for me) to make this decision, because we like new things. New things are great. New things stimulate our brains, which is why people always want to buy the newest gadget. It doesn’t even have to be new, it just has to be new to you (this leads to the thrift store discussion, but that is for another day). But a needle and thread or super glue are so much cheaper than a new sweater.
Sewing
(It’s okay if you’re bad at it)
There are a lot of ways to implement “Don’t Replace – Repair!” but the one that’s been on my mind and that I have been focused on lately is mending my clothes. Now, I am not an expert seamstress. In fact, I am pretty awful at sewing. But most of the time, it doesn’t matter. I can sew, but it won’t look pretty. But it doesn’t need to! I like to hem pants, sleeves, skirts, etc. while I am watching TV. As long as I am patient and don’t use a highly contrasting color of thread, you can’t tell that I don’t have the steadiest hand. I’ll also either close up or patch small holes in items. This can be fun if you just go all out and make it obvious and funky, or you can try to hide it.
The most ambitious (and money-saving) project I have taken up recently is the repair of my purse. It’s one of those purses that has organizing compartments in it. I wanted one for a long time, but the one I wanted (the Cadillac of organizational purses – the Butler Bag) costs between $200 and $300, depending on what the designer is making at the moment. And let’s face it – even before I started getting my s*** together, there was no way I was spending $200 on a purse. That’s just not me.
I did some more research, and found that Kmart carries a budget version of the Butler Bag. It’s still made by Butler, but it’s vinyl instead of leather (and I am sure there are other changes that I am not savvy enough to notice). Like the original Butler Bags, the Kmart bags seem to change with the seasons. I ordered one online in September of 2011.
I got mine for $30. The ones up there right now are $25, on sale for $18. Sure beats $200! But recently, it started falling apart. I don’t mean to lay any blame on Butler Bags or Kmart – I abuse this bag. I use it every day, I keep a million things in it, I rifle through it with abandon, I throw it about the place, I stuff it in the seat compartment of my Vespa, I bang it into things on the bus… Really. It’s me. And despite the excellent price from Kmart, I don’t want to buy something new if I don’t have to. I don’t want to spend money if there is some other option. I also have a bunch of yarn sitting around from unfinished knitting projects, and I have been looking for uses for it. So I sat down with a darning needle and some dark-colored yarn and attacked my bag.
The side seam was coming apart, and also the lining was coming undone at the bottom. Stuff was getting lost in there, and I started to worry about someone stealing things from my purse while on the bus because there was a giant hole in it! I emptied the bag, which was a great exercise too, since I had the chance to throw out old receipts and the like, and decide what I do and don’t really need to keep in my purse. Then I vacuumed it with the hose attachment on my vacuum, ostensibly to clean it but really just because I love vacuuming things. I turned it inside out and started blundering through the repair. Like I said, I am not good at sewing. I am passable. I do not have any special tools for sewing vinyl. I just took what I had at home and made the best of it. I didn’t even have black yarn, so it’s a dark grey yarn. It looks pretty pathetic. It is now dubbed “Frankenpurse.” But the thing is, the only people who are going to notice it are the people standing behind me on the bus, spaced out and staring at whatever is in front of them. And if people do notice it, so what? When you’re not a magical domestic genius person, and you want to save money, sometimes you have to do that by wearing or using things that look kind of deformed. Yes, I have a budget version of a fancy purse that I sewed up (poorly) with yarn. So what? I’m going to be a millionaire someday.
I wish I was better at sewing and the like. I think it can make a dramatic difference if you’re able to repair or customise things. I’ve never considered vinyl before but the Kmart Butler Bag looks great.
That’s the beauty of it – you don’t have to be good at it. My purse looks like it was sewn by a kindergartener. And yes, when I was looking for the link to the Kmart site and they have some new ones, especially the flowery one, I was like ummmm now I want to ignore my own advice and buy that bag! But that $18 can be put to use elsewhere.
I read all these blogs where people make their own clothes, they grow their own food, etc. I wish I could do those things, but I can’t. That’s not a solution for me. I am a 24 year old living in a tiny attic apartment. I have no car, I work two full-time jobs that both involve spending a lot of time in front of a computer screen, and I can’t even keep the Christmas Cactus in my office alive. I don’t own a sewing machine – and if I did, I don’t even have room in my apartment for an actual table of any sort. So I have my own, Gen Y, non-fancy ways of doing things. I kept looking for info on doing some of this stuff if you’re not a magical crafting genius with hours and hours of time, and I didn’t find it, so I am figuring it out on my own and sharing it with you. My sewing skills are really limited to “you put the needle in on one side, pull it out the other side, and put it back in a little ways farther, repeat!” Really. I’ll share a picture of Frankenpurse to make you feel better. What it comes down to at that point is not caring what people think of you when you’re walking around with a Frankenpurse, which isn’t exactly an easy feat on its own.
Photo of sewing “skills” added to post, so you can see what I mean when I say “passable.” 🙂 There’s nothing stopping you!
Definitely passable. I can see the stitching in the photograph but nobody would notice when you’re walking down the street. I went through a stage of buying a ton of handbags. I had so many it became ridiculous. I sold a load on ebay and now just stick to three – black, red and beige. I paid a little bit more than normal for them but they’re really well made and take some knocking about as well because I have to pack so much in to them for my son. If they’re ever in need of some sewing-work, I know who to contact 😉